{"id":22891,"date":"2021-02-14T18:35:47","date_gmt":"2021-02-14T09:35:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.waca.associates\/en\/?p=22891"},"modified":"2021-03-13T11:18:59","modified_gmt":"2021-03-13T02:18:59","slug":"three-tips-to-improve-your-conversation-skills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/growthhacking\/three-tips-to-improve-your-conversation-skills\/","title":{"rendered":"[KIT]3 ways to improve your conversation skills &amp; recomendation tools"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to talk to with people I meet for the first time or superiors \u2026&#8221; Have you ever had such an experience?Your impression will change greatly depending on whether you can chat or not.<\/p><p>&#8220;I want to be popular&#8221;<br>&#8220;I want to be liked by my senior&#8221;<\/p><p>For those who think so, today we would like to introduce three conversation  tips to improve your conversational skills.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.unsplash.com\/photo-1543269865-4430f94492b9?ixid=MXwxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHw%3D&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;auto=format&amp;fit=crop&amp;w=1000&amp;q=80\" alt=\"couple sitting on the dining table\" \/><\/figure><p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>\u2460By listening to storyes, the other person can get pleasure<\/strong><\/p><p>The balance between &#8220;listening&#8221; and &#8220;speaking&#8221; of the moderator is about 7: 3.<br>70% Listen carefully to the other person&#8217;s story, and 30% talk about yourself to appeal casually.<\/p><p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>\u2781If you dare to talk about your pitiful story, listners will feel a sense of closeness<\/strong><\/p><p>A pitiful story has the effect of dispelling the alertness of the other person and creating a sense of intimacy.<\/p><p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>\u2462Contents<\/strong><\/p><p>These are the contents which are useful when you have a conversation.<\/p><p>Food (including health such as diet)<br>Area (including home, hometown, and other hobbies such as travel)<br>Commuting<br>Weather (including disasters such as earthquakes)<br>Wealth (Finance, financial tech, work, etc. related to money)<\/p><p>For example, it looks like this.<\/p><p><br> (Food): &#8220;I&#8217;ve been looking for a delicious restaurant lately, don&#8217;t you know?&#8221;<br> (Region): &#8220;Where is Mr. \u25ef\u25ef&#8217;s hometown?&#8221;<br> (Commuting \/ School): &#8220;What kind of train does Mr. \u25ef\u25ef always use for commuting?&#8221;<br> (Weather): &#8220;It&#8217;s getting a little hotter, isn&#8217;t it?&#8221;<br> (Tomi): &#8220;I&#8217;m looking for a part-time job with a good salary because I&#8217;m out of money. Do you know a good company to work for?&#8221;<\/p><p><\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Our recomendation <\/strong><\/h2><p>\u2460\u3000TED talks<\/p><p>https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCAuUUnT6oDeKwE6v1NGQxug<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"&#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to talk to with people I meet for the first time or superiors \u2026&#8221; Have you [&hellip;]","protected":false},"author":661,"featured_media":22894,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[175,169],"tags":[306,307],"class_list":["post-22891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-growth-hacking-course","category-growthhacking","tag-conversatoin","tag-social"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/c7.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22891"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/661"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22891"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22891\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27039,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22891\/revisions\/27039"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22894"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.waca.or.jp\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}